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For example, evidence shows that simple but straightforward checklists work a lot better than complicated but fuzzy subjective evaluations. Virginia Apgar figured out over breakfast one day that a systematic assessment of five variables of a newborn -- heart rate, respiration, reflex, muscle tone, and color -- and three scores (2, 1 or 0 depending on the robustness of each sign) can determine whether a baby required intervention or not. The checklist clarifies thinking and saves precious time.

The Apgar Score has since been used millions of times and has saved the lives of countless babies. Checklists are such powerful tools that Atul Gawande wrote a whole book about them called .

You don’t not like the person…think…I mean there wasn’t necessarily a spark…but not not a spark? …and god, you should like this person, there was nothing wrong with this person, this person is, on paper, the definition of everything you claim to want…maybe another chance? Another dinner, another movie, another perfectly acceptable make-out session where you can’t tell if it’s the person you’re turned on by, or merely the act of kissing. How do you know when you should stop seeing someone, and when you should give it just a little bit more of a chance? How you develop chemistry with another person is a mystery, but it certainly doesn’t happen when you’re dreading the thought of another date. If you find that you frequently react to the idea of dating with stress or anxiety, it’s probably something you want to get to the bottom of, sooner rather than later. What you don’t want to do is lead anyone on, or continue to date someone you feel uncertain about if you think they might be developing stronger feelings for you.

It’s not going to happen with this person, so save yourself the stress (and save them the trouble) now. But if that’s not the case, then there’s no reason not to continue to date someone casually, so long as you’re having a nice enough time.

These behaviors provide a lot more information than their self-promoting declarations.

First date conversation is often filled with pre-recordings, the things you've said repeatedly about yourself that may have garnered a chuckle or a sympathetic nod in the past.

On some dates, you know right away that there’s not going to be a another one.

Physical unattraction, lack of compatible sense of humors, weird behavior, and having nothing to talk about are all factors that prompt the cricket on your shoulder to say, politely but firmly, “No thank you.” Those dates suck. Then there are the dates where everything is fine — there’s, if not palpable chemistry, at least a lack of repulsion, the conversation is perfectly pleasant, there’s no alarming behavior, and the cricket on your shoulder falls mysteriously, frustratingly silent.

Now score the last question on a scale of 1 (yes) to 0 (no): 4. Now multiply the cumulative score from questions 1-3 by the score for question 4. With the score being only 1 or 0, that aspect of the relationship doesn't get weighted too much.

Even when two people feel completely at home with each other, the fact remains that there is always a possibility that it may not work out.

This isn’t something that should discourage anyone from dating or from trying to make things work.

The result is the TAO Hotness questionnaire: Score the following three questions on a scale of 2 (always or nearly so), 1 (sometimes), or 0 (seldom or never): 1.

Talk: Does the conversation between you flow effortlessly? Answer: Does he return communication in less than 24 hours? Ask Out: Does he make requests for your company in advance? So, for example, if a guy always calls you back within a day (2), asks you out most of the time (1) can talk to you for hours without lulls or boredom (2) and turns you on (1), his score is a 5. Notice how if the same guy had everything going for him but does not turn you on, his score is 0.


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