If that’s not a sign that he loves you, then what is?The guy is on fire with text messages and something is telling me that he can’t take his eyes of his phone, constantly checking if you have texted him. Bonus Tip: communication is key to a successful relationship.Take him at his word and move on to someone who values relationships the way you do.Sign he’s just not into you: He encourages you to date other people.“When a woman is interested in a man, she makes time for him,” says Brooke Carsner, owner of Intuitive Matchmaking.
You kiss in private, but he won’t go near you when you’re out in public.I’ve spoken to a number of females friends regarding courtship and the like.One thing I still find fascinating is how a woman can go crazy over a guy but refuses to make a bold first move on him because she doesn’t want to appear as a “slut”.Yes, the old clichés are true: the truth hurts — and it also sets you free. Sign he’s just not into you: He says he’s not relationship material. If he says that he’s not looking for a relationship, he doesn’t believe in marriage, he’s not relationship material, or he’s just “having fun,” don’t try to read beyond those words.Either he’s not into you, or he’s not into commitment in general.If your date encourages you to date other people, it’s not because he wants to experience the enlightenment that comes with multiple dinner-plans partners; he’s just not into you enough to want you all to himself.If he’s still dating other people — and you’re at a stage where you feel you should be exclusive — then he’s not ready to commit to anyone.So noticing these signals from women only gives you the green light to bring out your seduction arsenal.Because courtship consists of many stages, sending you a signal that she is interested is only an indication that she is open to your game to take her to the next stage of courtship.Wouldn’t you rather hit the gym or hang with the guys than put up with this BS? “This is a sure sign she is selfish,” says Jonathan Alpert, psychotherapist and author of Opposites attract, but not when it comes to values and world views.As a die-hard Yankees fan, overcoming her love for the Red Sox might be sports suicide.