It was when I drew that comparison that I realized I used to be just like the men she comes across today.
I tried to soften the message, but there was no way of getting around a truth that many men take advantage of.
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New York is known as the "Empire State" and Black People is here to bring their Black Singles together.“I told you when you came out to me that you weren’t going to end up with a black man,” my sister said to me recently, laughing hysterically.I had just told her about a friend of mine predicting my future, which involved an interracial marriage, the two of us remodeling a brownstone and being featured on HGTV.Yet, I’ve always wanted to end up with someone like me — though ideally with less student loan debt.I’m not against dating anyone else, but I want someone who not only looks like me, but also understands me.I was chatting with a friend of mine — we’ll call her Tameka — about her dating adventures in New York City.She’s a good person that takes care of her appearance and knows how to converse.But she regularly runs into an issue that my other female friends in NYC run into: Men that fall off the map when they find out they’ll need to put in effort.I was trying to explain to her why men in the Big Apple approach dating so lax, then started thinking about my experience as a single black male that’s lived in two northeastern hubs.There’s nothing wrong with interracial relationships. They’ve given me Mariah Carey, Barack Obama, a few lifelong friends and plenty of men to fawn over on Instagram.In the future, romantic relationships in this country are poised to become even more multiracial, not less.