This means that if you want, you can have a much bigger picture of your partner!Ideally you should use a quality webcam when filming yourself for your man.I'm still figuring it all out, but here are a few tips I've learned from my foray into this brave new world of e-humping. It's like porn you direct and co-star in, which is both exciting and nerve-wracking.Having an encouraging person on the other end is invaluable. (Am I just a set of naked pixels for you to put your sex feelings into? Since you're clearly not near your partner, a little keepsake for the lonely times is nice.
Because we’re not living in the dark ages, where hand-written letters and the occasional phone call were the only things connecting you and your partner, we have amazing inventions to keep people closer together, even if they are a world away.First we are going to start off with the setting things up so you and your man both get the most out of it (don’t worry, I get to the fun stuff later! Before you get to having Skype sex with your man, you need to do a few things first.Most people have Skype sex with either their laptop or desktop computer.Obviously if you can find a computer with a big screen, that would be great.But many flatscreen TVs are able to connect to your computer.Skype has grown to be every long distance relationship’s third wheel.Skype, to me, is the most sexually revolutionary product since the Pill, and Skype sex is now a luxury for couples everywhere. While surprise sex is certainly fun when you’re in person, it is nearly impossible to execute from long distance. Discuss the ideal situations for turning each other on, telling them what you’d like to see and do, but also acknowledge where to draw the line so that no one is uncomfortable. Use language to do what your body can’t and to make up for the distance. At times, Skype sex may feel uncomfortable and unnatural. After your amazing, mind-blowing Skype sex (or even strange, awkward, giggly, my-foot-got-tangled-in-my-sheets Skype sex) it might be a good idea to have a bit of pillow talk. You are in different places but enjoying your bodies together at the same time. I mean come on, why do you think Google is really developing Google glass?If my partner weren't reassuring me I was hot, it would just make me feel weird. ) It's scary to be that vulnerable, so make sure you appreciate your partner out loud. But before you take a screenshot, make sure your boundaries are clear.Even though you might be thinking, "My God, those are the greatest pectoral muscles in the history of pectoral muscles," there's no way for your partner to know that unless you spit it out. Personally, I couldn't care less if there are naked pictures of me on the internet, since there already naked pictures of me on the internet. Skype and most other video chat services include a little picture of you nested in the big picture of the person you're chatting with. The person you're all twitterpated over could turn out to be a jerk. I've had a wealth of sexual experience, and learned many wonderful and terrible things from many wonderful and terrible people.I'm seeing a person who a) is a photographer and b) lives in a different country and c) is far more visual than me. I'm now relearning intimacy through a whole new medium. It's not like being right there with someone, but it also doesn't let your imagination run wild like phone sex or sending dirty emails; it's some whole new thing, with its own drawbacks and its own distinct pleasures. Skype sex is like watching porn that stars a person who (hopefully) you know for real, who's aware that you're watching them.