Freedom, separation, aggression, conquest, goal seeking and sex are the basic nature of testosterone.
You’ve seen how many wars and conquests have been waged by men since the beginning of time. It has also contributed to so much magnificence in the world: invention, creation, technology and innovation.
Others temporarily make something a higher priority than a relationship, such as a family obligation, education, project, or a health concern.
The science of love labels this person an avoidant.
But in their minds, they are a non-needy, independent individual.
I know What You Think: Is He Emotionally Unavailable Or Is He Just Not That Into You? They get clingy and needy and expect their men to entertain or complete them (and these women instead of inspiring their men to commit, they are driving him away and sooner or later they are just losing interest). It’s just that usually they’re much less in a hurry than us to get to that point.
It’s not that men won’t trade some of their freedom for the perks of being in a stable and fulfilling relationship. They need to feel ready and totally sure that they know what they’re signing up for. Here Is The Cure Cases of men being taken to the cleaners by their wives in the divorce also add to the nervousness many men feel with the idea of commitment/marriage.