As they sit across the table from a woman, most guys are busy planning, worrying about what to say and do next or worse — just not being interested. Until a man is confident and comfortable enough to be totally “present,” he’ll never connect with a woman in the moment, let alone for the future. It will be painfully obvious that he’s not hearing or caring about what she has to say. I know what you’re thinking…and you’re totally wrong.
About 99% of guys think that being “thoughtful” is about telling a woman how pretty she is, or buying her flowers, gifts or lavishing attention on her at obvious moments.
They discovered these two parts of the process: The first step is to make eye contact to show specific interest.
So your task is to catch his attention as he looks around the room and look directly into his eyes.
In this article, David De Angelo reveals the three secret “tests” every woman uses (usually without even realizing it) to see if you have “relationship potential.” When it comes to building great relationships with women, some guys have to learn the hard wayand I was one of them.If you seem offended by it, that's as far as we go." —Steve M."Girls should try to avoid pre-judging before a first date.Whether it's someone you're meeting online or it's someone your friends know, aim to drop the things you know about them and start fresh. If you guys have a great time, you're both left wanting more." —Greg G." /"Please don't assume we're going to the nicest restaurant in the city because I won't take you there. Opt for something that gives you both an easy out, like lunch or a drink.I'll take you to a dive bar with amazing burgers to see how you react.If you're flowing with it and cool, we've got a winner.But when it comes to whether she’ll see you as boyfriend material, thoughtfulness takes on a whole other meaning.It’s your ability to pay attention to her in unexpected ways — at unexpected times — because it’s genuinely in your heart to do it.Find somewhere to sit where you can see all the men -- and where they can see you.Spend the first few minutes getting organized, or so it seems.