There comes a time in everybody’s dating career when your dance card suddenly becomes fuller than you know what to do with.
One day, you’re swiping sullenly through Tinder bemoaning the lack of attractive, normal-seeming men that are possibly as tall as they say they are in their profiles, and the next, you find yourself drafting a spreadsheet to keep track of the nine dates that you have somehow booked for one week. Like all things in life, your dating life will ebb and flow.
You’ll start to hope it’s a certain person when your phone rings, you’ll be more excited about plans with that person.
You’ll also start to feel a little more detached while you’re on your other dates.
So what are the things you would want to consider when/if you decide that you want to be dating more than one person at once? But I’ll be the first person to say that it can get messy.
I’ve talked to a lot of people with many different views on the topic and only one thing seems clear; There really is no line, and there isn’t one set standard. I think that dating more than one person at a time can in some ways be helpful to figure out who you want to be with.
The rule of thumb I’ve started to use is that if I like them a decent amount, and I feel like things are going well with them I will mention that I’m seeing more than one person by the third date.
” you ask yourself as you scroll thru your texts one lazy Sunday.It’s similar to “make up sex” after a break up, but more erotic because she also feels like she is being used for sex…and loves it at the same time.If you’re constantly taking a girl out to expensive restaurants and trying to organize additional dates, then it means that you’re most-likely trying to be her boyfriend.Years of Sahara-like drought will give way to a summer full of eternal possibility, teeming with tapas dates and dinner dates and beach dates galore.One day, you’ll wake up in a daze, and find yourself with a bucket full of eligible, decent, good dudes, all clamoring for your attention.Ladies, there is absolutely no shame in diversifying your dating portfolio.In fact, it’s highly encouraged to put your eggs into lots of different baskets while you’re a free agent, as long as you can do it without being a total dick.If you go on a few dates with somebody and your interested in them, why bother with going out with other people until you see where it goes.Also my other point is, If I'm taking you out, paying for it, driving, investing my time into you then why would I wanna do all this if your gonna go and do the exact same thing tomorrow with another guy?These days, dating multiple people at once is something that both men and women do to enjoy a fun and exciting lifestyle full of sex, love and rollercoaster emotions.Some people want to settle down and get married right now, some want to start a family as soon as possible and others just want enjoy sex and good times for a while. If you are a man who is interested in dating multiple women at once, you may: Back to my story about dating multiple women…