Emotional immaturity can lead to a bad relationship, because chances are, he isn’t going to be able to give you what you want.If you suspect that your boyfriend may not quite be on your level of maturity, you might be right.(The Frisky) -- Let's face it -- we've all got issues and sometimes need multiple attempts to surmount emotional obstacles. Here's the important thing to remember: The Addict will ALWAYS be looking for a high. Even if he is sober from drugs/alcohol/gambling/food, if he hasn't done "the work," he may get hooked on you. That's why it's bad news if that relationship has gone wrong in some way. Whether he hates her or is obsessed with her, he is blind to the fact that he is replaying his relationship with his mom with every woman he gets involved with.But some of us are better at dealing with them than others and, we argue, women are often better at working through emotional problems than men. " To which we reply, "Smell ya later." And so should you. The Frisky: 25 signs he is not relationship material The woman he wants: Someone who gets him high. Maybe it's the married woman, his crush from high school he never thought he would get, or the ex he dumped years ago. The Frisky: A dress made for Coco's assets The woman he wants: Someone who is exactly like his mother or exactly the opposite, depending on the nature of the dysfunction.He’s clear about wanting to be with you and he’s clear about what he wants with a woman and in a relationship. You’ll rarely see him whine, and he doesn’t blame others when things go wrong. 3) He Has a Higher Purpose You know those guys who are absolutely passionate about their work or their cause?
If you see that a man is committed to a larger purpose, it’s a safe bet that he’s done “the work.” 4) He Has Close Relationships The best true signal of how a man will handle his relationship with you is how he relates to others he’s closest to. The mature man is comfortable being truly close and open with others in his life.
Being inconsiderate and rude is a sign of immaturity - it shows that he can't really think about anyone other than himself.
If your BF does things even though he knows they'll make you upset, or if he is rude to you or your friends, that's just not okay.
Falling denotes lowering oneself, dropping down and being stuck somewhere lower than where you started. Love isn’t like that — at least not with people who are doing it right. Because love is either a passing game, or it’s forever. There are no passionate fights with passionate make-up sex. The love between the two of them isn’t about making both of them whole again, but more individual.
It’s the calmest place in your life, the safest blanket you’ve ever worn. It eats away at you when you go to sleep or leave each other for just a few hours. There is never a feeling that something has been taken away or is leaving with the other person.