‘He’d have to have good facial features, particularly nice eyes and, to seal the deal, a wide bum and thick legs to carry him around.’ Heidi says it is the dichotomy of soft and strong she finds so titillating.
‘Fat men are big compared to me and yet there’s a vulnerability to them because they’re not falling in line with societal standards.
[Read: 12 stereotypes of girls in a guy’s mind and where he may be placing you] Men start fancying a girl at first sight.I mean, I’ve seen pictures of him before, and I still believe under the extra pounds, a bae still exists.Now will I date someone who’s a prime candidate for gastric bypass? [Read: 10 easy ways to get a guy to notice you and fall for you!] But while a first impression would get him to notice you, it still takes a few conversations and dates to get him to fall head over heels in love with you.Trust is certainly one of the more important aspects of a relationship.Whether it is a brand new relationship or a long term one, trust is key when it comes to giving your heart away and sharing your life with someone else. Dude believed he’d been talking to Katy Perry online for six years and fell in love with her. He started conversing with “Katy” on an app and trusted whoever the fuck made the account when he asked them to confirm that they were in fact pop star Katy Perry.Spencer even fell hard enough to make a ring of his dear Grandma’s emerald stone and a quarter of his life savings.Take 29-year-old Heidi â her ideal man would weigh 158kg (25st).‘Ideally, he would have some muscle and plenty of soft fat covering his body,’ she explains.