Since there was no way to know who would stick around, I dated as many guys as I was interested in at the same time.That's why I'm an advocate for "volume dating."I dated 30 men in 15 months in order to eventually meet my husband.When I was looking for love, I often dated up to three guys simultaneously.
AKA, you’ll have to pick which one you want to be exclusively committed to. How do you choose when you obviously like both guys equally?
Rarely does it happen that two men pursue with equal interest and intentionality, stirring in a woman an equal response and potential for love and marriage.
What's more likely is that as you get to know these men as friends, one will emerge as the man you're more drawn to (or possibly you'll realize neither is a good fit for marriage).
I have fun with both of them, and they both show signs of being a godly husband.
I feel guilty going out with both of them at the same time, though.