I've been knowing this since we started talking, and I told him he was worth it for me to wait.-He doesn't believe in love. And my friends ask me about that and think it's weird, but I don't know what to say about that, we just don't although I wouldn't mind it.-He keeps mentioning about moving East (we live in California), but I don't feel like I'm in the picture.
Apparently, his last relationship ruined that for me. And yet, he feels the same way when I'm just joking about us just being friends since we're not official! We have been through a lot together, I love him and can see myself with him.
Again, are you sure you want to hear the answer to this question?
Great questions to ask someone you've dated for less than a year: 1.
I feel like I haven't gotten honest advice from friends or family and would appreciate an upfront answer."My dear, here's my advice, take it or leave it: I think everyone needs to hear that they are loved.
You're lying in bed with the man you've fallen madly in love with. What are you thinking asking someone you've known for three months that question?? If someone's divorce is taking a long time to happen, it's either financial issues, a struggle to reach an agreement or laziness. When are we going to introduce our kids to each other? He might feel angry or hatred, even, but I think that there's a part of every divorced person (whether they want to admit it or not) that will always love a little part of his or her ex no matter what.
It's only been a few months, but you are SURE he's the one. Do you expect him to answer, "Now that I've met YOU, I'm going to make sure my divorce is final next week so we can move in together, get married, merge our families and live happily ever after! I do know a few divorced guys who dive in head first into every relationship and end up divorced three or four times. That doesn't mean he will never get serious with you. No offense, but at the beginning of a relationship, the two of you are into each other. My opinion (and you can take it or leave it) is that you better be pretty darn sure it's going to work out when you bring your kids into the mix. If you have to say that to someone, you have your answer: Because he doesn't.
PROS:-He lives 2 minutes away from me, so we spend a lot of time together-My parents love him.-I can hang out with him with my friends-I'm the first girl he has been able to bring home to, and even get to know his dad.
It's a big deal considering that his dad is in the Navy.